Women....I have a request.
Do whatever the heck you want with your life and don't waste time worrying that some amazing opportunity might in someway prevent you from meeting mister right.
Go on that trip, take that weird internship to Borneo, just don't sit around thinking that in some way it's your duty to be "around" "Just in Case".
I had a friend mention grad school to her family, to which they responded "Oh, it just seems like you've given up on marriage."
And I say...What the devil is that supposed to mean?
We're young we're free and really we can do whatever floats our boat.
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I think there's a huge problem with this, especially in our religion. Having hopes and dreams outside of being a mother is a great thing for women, and will probably make them better mothers in the end. Besides, who's supposed to pay your rent in the meantime, if you're done with school and just hanging around doing unfulfilling things until you get married?
Women should never feel the need to not be as fabulous as possible, because it might intimidate men, or give them the impression you're not wife slash mother material. Like, what if, instead of hoping you can find a man who will put up with your graduate degree and professional accomplishments, you held out for a man who actually LIKED that about you?
Quit worrying about where you need to be to find HIM, just live your happy life and he'll find YOU.
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